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What Is Spotting?


Someone asked us:

What exactly is spotting?

Spotting, also called “breakthrough bleeding,” is vaginal bleeding that happens in the middle of your menstrual cycle.  Although it varies from person to person, spotting is usually not as heavy nor does it last as long as your regular period. It’s fairly common, especially if you’ve just started a hormonal contraception method like the pill or ring, but will usually go away after a couple of cycles. Spotting is also more common for women who use the pill or ring continuously, without taking a week a month for placebo pills or to leave the ring in.

If you’ve been on a hormonal method for a few months and spotting is bothering you, talk with your health care provider about trying a different method or a different version of the pill that is less likely to cause spotting.

-Nathan at Planned Parenthood

Smoking and Birth Control


Someone asked us:

Will smoking cigarettes make my birth control shot less effective?

Smoking cigarettes doesn’t make the birth control shot less effective at preventing pregnancy. You might have heard some rumors about how you shouldn’t smoke while using birth control. We’ll spare you the stuff you already know about how bad for your health smoking is —the truth is that smoking won’t make birth control less effective.

You may have heard that with some types of birth control, smoking can increase the risk of certain extremely rare side effects. That’s why smokers who are over age 35, have high blood pressure or other risk factors, are often advised not to use the combination birth control pill, patch or ring — which contain both estrogen and progestin (the shot only has progestin). But smoking doesn’t decrease the effectiveness of any birth control method.

-Alex at Planned Parenthood

Sex and Periods


Someone asked us:

Hi, I was wondering if having sex can push one’s period back?

Unprotected vaginal intercourse can push back your period.,- by about nine months! :-) But I don’t think you were talking about pregnancy when you asked your question.

Hormones, not sexual activity, are responsible for starting and stopping your period. FSH and LH, which are hormones released by the pituitary gland in your brain, trigger the production of estrogen in your ovaries,which results in the release of an egg. After ovulation, the ovaries produce progestin, which turns off the FSH and LH and eventually causes the lining of the uterus to shed (hello period!). If it sounds complicated, that’s because it is! But this neat little interactive animation can help you understand what’s going on. 

Stress, low body weight, and some kinds of birth control can interrupt or even temporarily eliminate your period, but it’s unlikely that having sex has any impact on the hormones that regulate your cycle.

-Nathan at Planned Parenthood

Birth Control and Menopause


Someone asked us:

If you don’t release eggs while on hormonal birth control, will it then take you longer to start menopause because you still have a higher number of eggs?

This is such a great question. The quick answer is: no, using hormonal birth control (which works by preventing ovulation, the release of an egg from the ovary) will NOT cause menopause to start later in a person’s life.

For those wanting a few more deets on the wondrous workings of the reproductive system, here’s what’s going on under the hood. Menopause is the transition period in a cisgender woman’s life when her body stops releasing eggs (technical term: ova) from the ovary, stops having a period, and stops being able to biologically have children. It’s caused by a reduction in the amount of hormones released by the body and usually occurs over the course of several years. It is NOT caused by a woman’s ovaries running out of ova. In fact, a female is born with about 1-2 million cells in her ovaries that could potentially develop into ova. However, assuming a life without birth control or pregnancy, she will typically only release a little over 400 eggs during her lifetime (Average fertility 35 years X 12 ovulations per year = 420 ova).

Bottom line: Using hormonal contraception will have no impact on when menopause begins.

-Nathan at Planned Parenthood

Will I have my period if I use Depo?


Someone asked us:

I got the Depo shot yesterday and I am freaking out. I’ve been reading online and I am so scared that I’ll never have my period or never be able to have kids. I am just scared. Yesterday was my first shot ever and I’m supposed to have my period in 2 days am I still going to have it? Please help me.

Hi there! Go ahead and take a deep breath — it’s really easy to get sucked into the black hole of misinformation on the Internet, especially when it comes to something as serious as your health. But the truth is, the birth control shot is safe and effective.

For most people who use the shot, periods become fewer and lighter, especially in the first 6 to 12 months. So you might get your period at the normal time this month, or it might be a little irregular. After a year of using the shot, there’s about a 50 percent chance you’ll stop having your period altogether. This is a completely normal side effect, and it won’t affect your ability to have children in the future. Since the shot is long lasting, it might take 6 to 10 months to get pregnant after you stop using the shot. But the shot won’t make you infertile (unable to have children).

There’s no medical reason why you need to get your period every month, but if getting your period each month is important to you, you might want to try a different form of birth control. Before you get your next dose of the shot (in 12 weeks), you should make an appointment to talk with your health care provider about your concerns. And you can read more about the birth control shot on our website.

-Alex at Planned Parenthood

Birth Control and Weight Gain


You might need to sit down for this one. It kinda goes against everything you’ve ever heard or learned or maybe even experienced. But it just so happens to be true. Are you ready?

There is no evidence that taking birth control pills causes you to gain weight. 

I know, I know. Your cousin. Your best friend. Your dental hygienist. They’ve all complained about gaining weight while taking the pill. And maybe they did. But it wasn’t because of the pill.

Like most myths, it’s hard to figure out where this pill-slander originated. But the idea that the birth control pill makes you gain weight is everywhere—it’s among the most common reasons people choose not to use the pill. So where did this convincing urban legend originate?

Slate has some ideas, including the good ol’ “blame it on the hormones” excuse. But what we do know for certain is there’s no convincing scientific evidence that birth control pills make you gain weight. That’s right, none. Shout it from the rooftops! 

-Nathan at PPFA

Birth control without hormones


Someone asked us:

Q. I can’t take birth control pills (the estrogen in them gives me massive migraines). What other types of birth control are out there that don’t involve changing a person’s hormones.

Bummer about the migraines, but fortunately there are a lot of birth control options available for someone who wants to avoid estrogen, or hormonal contraception altogether.

If estrogen is the problem, there are hormonal birth control methods that do NOT contain estrogen, but instead use a different hormone — progestin — to prevent pregnancy. Check out the birth control shot, implant, the Mirena IUD, or even progestin-only birth control pills.

If you need to avoid hormones altogether, the most effective form of birth control (other than abstinence) is the ParaGard IUD - a small device that is inserted into the uterus by a health care provider and left there for as long as you want, up to 10-12 years. It doesn’t contain any hormones and is 99% effective at preventing pregnancy.

The diaphragm, cervical cap, sponge, condom, and female condom (which can also be used by anyone to protect against sexually transmitted infections during vaginal AND anal sex) are all barrier methods of birth control that don’t involve any hormones. They work by creating a physical barrier that prevent sperm and egg from meeting up.

Various forms of spermicide can be inserted into the vagina before intercourse and release chemicals that prevents sperm from reaching an egg.

There are actions people can take that can help them avoid pregnancy while sexually active; things like avoiding ejaculation inside of the vagina (withdrawal), and avoiding vaginal intercourse during the times in the menstrual cycle when pregnancy is most likely to happen (fertility awareness-based methods).

For permanent, non-reversible birth control, vasectomy and sterilization are two options. 

As you can see, even someone who wants to avoid birth control that contains estrogen has a lot of options!

-Nathan at PPFA

The birth control shot and missed periods

Someone asked us:

Q. I’ve been on Depo for almost two years now and have not had a period for eight months. I am not pregnant and my gyno does not see it as a serious issue. Should I still be worried that something might have happened, or maybe the pregnancy tests have been false? I am petrified of being pregnant and I dont want to end up like the women on the TV show, “I didnt know I was pregnant.” What should I do?

Not getting your period is a normal side effect of Depo-Provera. The shot is very effective at preventing pregnancy, but if not getting your period causes you to freak out about being pregnant, you might want to consider changing to another kind of birth control. Our My Method tool can help you figure out which birth control method is best for you. You can also learn more about the birth control shot on our website.

-Amy at PPFA

Is my period too light?

Someone asked us:

Q. I know birth control is supposed to make your period lighter, but is there a point where it’s too light? Is this ever a problem or even unhealthy to not be having a period?

No, having really light or no periods while you’re taking hormonal birth control is not a problem or unhealthy. Here’s why: When you’re not taking hormonal birth control, the lining of your uterus builds up each month in preparation for a possible pregnancy.  If you don’t get pregnant that month, your uterus sheds the lining (It’s period time!) and then prepares for the possibility of pregnancy the next month. 

When you are taking hormonal birth control, your body does not get ready for a possible pregnancy every month.  You don’t release an egg and the lining of the uterus doesn’t build up like it does when you’re not on birth control.  So that’s why people have lighter periods or skip them entirely when taking the pill, patch, ring, or shot.

-Amy at PPFA

Condom options for people with latex allergies


Someone asked us:

Q. Can you make a post about alternative forms of birth control? Every time you mention condoms it’s always LATEX, and a lot of people have latex or other allergies. It would be nice to see an inclusive discussion on the subject, especially for someone like me who feels hopeless at times because of the limitations my body puts on what type of birth control I am able to comfortably use.

Sure thing! About six out of 100 people have latex allergies. For folks who are allergic or sensitive to latex, there are a few options. You can use a polyurethane or polyisoprene condom. These condoms also prevent  pregnancy and the spread of STDs.

The second option is the female condom. The female (FYI, anyone—not just females — can use this condom for anal sex) condom is made out of a synthetic rubber that doesn’t contain latex, so it’s fine for people with latex allergies. And it can be used for vaginal or anal sex.

Everybody is different, which is why choosing a birth control method is such a personal decision. When it comes to finding a birth control option that works for your body — whether it’s the right kind of condom, the right kind of pill, or the right kind of IUD — a health care provider can help you figure it out.

-Alex at PPFA

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