How detailed do I need to be with my doctor about my sex life?

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Someone asked us: 

When I go for my yearly Gyno exam, I’m asked if I’m sexually active. I’m honest and tell them yes, but do I need to be more specific? My boyfriend and I are in an open relationship, and my boyfriend has other male sexual partners. How much do I need to tell my doctor? Will they test for other/ more STIs? Thanks. :)

Doctors and nurses ask their patients this question so they can make sure they’re giving you the best care during your visit. So the more information your nurse or doctor has, the better they can provide you the care that you need. For example, telling your doctor that you have multiple sexual partners (or that your partner does) can help them to better understand what services to provide you, such as STI testing and birth control

If you can, find a nurse or doctor that you can feel comfortable and open with. Planned Parenthood health centers offer caring, nonjudgmental, and confidential services. Our staff have heard it all and are here to help. You can always make an appointment at your nearest Planned Parenthood health center without having to worry about being judged. 

-Attia at Planned Parenthood

Is it normal to get my period early after taking plan B?

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Someone asked us:

Is it normal to get my period early after taking plan b?

Yes. It’s totally normal for your next period to be different from what you’re used to after taking emergency contraception, like Plan B. It may come earlier or later, and be heavier, lighter, or more spotty than usual. Your period may also be the same as it normally is. You might experience other side effects, like an upset stomach, feeling lightheaded or dizzy, or tender breasts for a short while when you take the morning-after pill. 

Want to learn about other types of emergency contraception and birth control? You can always chat online or take our quiz to find out which type of EC is best for you. 

-Attia at Planned Parenthood

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EVERYONE should feel comfortable and confident in their own skin!! I identify as gender fluid. I am pronoun indifferent and sometimes experience chest disphoria. On those days, I choose to rock a binder beacuase it’s what makes ME feel comfortable. No trans person should feel pressured to wear a binder unless they feel comfortable doing so.

What society should be pressing is self love! Do what feels right for you! Remember! Sushi rolls 🍣 NOT gender rolls lol.

Why are my breasts tender and swollen?

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Someone asked us: 

Hello I have a question both of my breasts is hurting can it be possible I’m pregnant

It’s normal for breasts to be swollen or sore sometimes for many different reasons. Your breasts might feel sore or tender as they develop during puberty or before and during your period. Sore or swollen breasts can also be a symptom of pregnancy

Premenstrual symptoms and early pregnancy symptoms have some similarities  — bloating, sore or swollen breasts, feeling tired, and having mood swings. The only way to know whether you’re pregnant for sure is to take a pregnancy test. Pregnancy tests are super accurate when you use them correctly. Your best bet for an accurate result is to take a pregnancy test 3 weeks after sex or after a missed period.

If you’re worried about pain in your breasts or feel anything unusual, visit your nurse, doctor, or a Planned Parenthood health center to make sure everything is OK.

-Attia at Planned Parenthood

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[ID: The Marie Kondo meme. The first panel shows “practicing someone’s pronouns on your own”, and she remarks “This one sparks joy.” The second panel shows “incrementally getting better at someone’s pronouns by making them correct you every time”, and she remarks “This one does not spark joy”. End ID]

Racism is a Public Health Crisis Experienced in Personal Tragedies

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I was 12 when my 17-year-old brother died. He was not shot by police or targeted by white supremacists, but racism killed him.

Richard had bipolar disorder, and our family relied on Medicaid for health care. After a brief stay in one of very few mental health facilities that accepted Medicaid in Chicago, he became extremely ill with a high fever and trouble breathing. We took him to the hospital, where he was not tested or x-rayed. Instead, he was given an inhaler and told to take ibuprofen. When his condition worsened, we went back to the ER, where staff diagnosed him with pneumonia in both lungs. He was admitted to the ICU and put on a ventilator. Five days later, as my mother and I finally took a break from living in the ICU to shower and change clothes at home, Richard died.

It is not a question to me whether Richard would have received better care if he wasn’t Black. There is a straight line from his Blackness to the health care options available to him to his treatment to his death.

Racism is a public health crisis. It manifests in dramatic inequities in health outcomes across the board — including three times as many COVID-19 infections among Black people and nearly twice as many deaths than white people. It manifests in the daily grind of discrimination and stress on Black bodies. It manifests in where we live, the health care available to us, and how we are treated. It manifests in which mothers must mourn sons who died too early, which sisters grow up without brothers.

Because of the long legacy of redlining and an economic system built on racism, Black Americans are disproportionately relegated to living in poverty-stricken areas. And since most health outcomes are determined by things like poverty, income inequality, wealth inequality, food insecurity, and the lack of safe, affordable housing — the social determinants of health — in all of these areas, Black people have to overcome 400 years of the deck being stacked against us.

If we do manage to get care, we often receive a poorer version in comparison to white people. In 2016, half of white medical students and residents surveyed held false beliefs about biological differences between Black people and white people — beliefs with deep roots in slavery, when physical violence was seen as acceptable because people believed enslaved Black people had “thicker” skin than white people. The medical students and residents with these false beliefs rated Black patients’ pain lower and made less accurate treatment recommendations.

Black women are doubly dehumanized. For centuries, we have been denied the rights and resources to make our own decisions about our bodies. Our desires are dismissed, our pain is ignored, and our needs go unmet. And it kills us. It’s why Black women are more than three times as likely to die of pregnancy and childbirth-related causes.

The racism in the U.S. health care system is borne out in these numbers, and in stories like my brother’s … and mine.

In 2018, I made the decision to get an abortion. I went to a local clinic in Brooklyn. I did not feel ashamed about having an abortion, but I was treated as if I should be. I was forced to have two visits with two ultrasounds before the procedure, and was ordered to go from room to room without being given any information about what was going on or what would happen next. I was seen by several doctors who didn’t even attempt a decent bedside manner and couldn’t pronounce my name.

The first doctor simply told me, “You can’t smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol,” without giving me any information on my options or asking me if I’d like to continue the pregnancy. I had to ask several times for information on abortion. I was then reluctantly, coldly told that medication abortion was “out of the picture” because insurance wouldn’t cover it. I felt like I had no control over my body.

If this was my experience in Brooklyn, in a state with liberal abortion laws, I can only imagine what people in states where access to abortion is even more restricted must be experiencing.

Trust me when I tell you: Black people feel pain. And we thrive in spite of it. For decades, Black people — Black women in particular — have been at the forefront of the movements to hold this country accountable to its promise of equality and justice — the Civil Rights movement, women’s suffrage, the LGBTQ+ movement, and reproductive justice. Black women started Black Lives Matter, now recognized as among the largest protest movements in U.S. history.

It isn’t enough to tear down statues of Confederate generals (as much as they should be). As American white supremacy meets this moment of reckoning, Black people still suffer from health inequities because of racism and a for-profit health care system.  We will only see change when we start to break down and rebuild the longstanding institutions that have historically been used as tools of oppression. We need to tackle the racial inequities in health care head on. Racism as a public health issue needs to be widely understood, especially by all who enter the medical field.

The health care system is killing us, as surely as police are. No more Black people should die from racist violence, or from illnesses that could be treated with just a little more care. No more Black women should experience the dehumanization I felt while getting care that is my right to have.

Racism is a public health issue, and all lives will matter when Black lives do.

-Leanna at PPFA

Leanna Burton is a media assistant in the Communications & Culture division at Planned Parenthood Federation of America. She was born and raised in Chicago, IL and studied journalism at City University of New York - Brooklyn College. She is also a musician and freelance writer whose main focus is lifting the voices of people in underserved and undervalued communities.

Can you have chlamydia and not have any symptoms?

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Someone asked us: 

Can you have chlamydia for a year(s) & not have any symptoms?

Yes! Chlamydia — like most STDs — has no symptoms. Many people don’t even realize they have chlamydia because they never experience any symptoms that can actually be felt or seen — that’s part of the reason it’s such a common infection. 

It’s important to get tested regularly for STDs if you’re sexually active, because untreated chlamydia (and other STDs) can lead to serious infections and even infertility. 

If you do have chlamydia symptoms, they can take several weeks to show up. Symptoms of chlamydia can include pain or burning while peeing, pain during sex, lower belly pain, abnormal vaginal discharge (may be yellowish and have a strong smell), pus or a watery/milky discharge from the penis, swollen or tender testicles, and pain, discharge, and/or bleeding around the anus. Chlamydia is usually easy to get rid of. Your nurse or doctor will get you antibiotics to treat the infection. 

Make an appointment with a nurse, doctor, or your local Planned Parenthood health center to get tested or treated. And remember, most people don’t have any symptoms at all when they have an STD — getting tested regularly is the only way to know for sure if you have chlamydia or any other STDs. 

-Attia at Planned Parenthood