Someone asked us: 

My vagina stays dry during sex, and it’s super uncomfortable for me. Is there anything I can do to make it feel better? 

Sex is supposed to feel good, so if you’re experiencing pain visit your nurse or doctor or local Planned Parenthood health center to get checked out. 

Having pleasurable sex includes being comfortable asking for what you want and need and having partners that are responsive and sensitive to those requests. Communication is key! If something is uncomfortable and painful, tell them. 

You can also try using lubricant to ease up some of the friction that happens during sex. Water-based and silicone-based lubes can really reduce that friction and make sex feel a whole lot better. But stay away from lotions, baby oil, or petroleum jelly because they can irritate your genitals and break condoms. 

-Attia at Planned Parenthood